Suggested Experiences & Outcomes
Responsibility of All Mental & Emotional Wellbeing
- I know that we all experience a variety of thoughts and emotions that affect how we feel and behave and I am learning ways of managing them. HWB 4-02a
- I understand that there are people I can talk to and that there are a number of ways in which I can gain access to practical and emotional support to help me and others in a range of circumstances. HWB 4-03a
- I understand that my feelings and reactions can change depending upon what is happening within and around me. This helps me to understand my own behaviour and the way others behave. HWB 4-04a
- I know that friendship, caring, sharing, fairness, equality and love are important in building positive relationships. As I develop and value relationships, I care and show respect for myself and others. HWB 4-05a
- I am learning skills and strategies which will support me in challenging times, particularly in relation to change and loss. HWB 4-07a
- I understand that people can feel alone and can be misunderstood and left out by others. I am learning how to give appropriate support. HWB 4-08a
Responsibility of All Social Wellbeing
- I recognise that each individual has a unique blend of abilities and needs. I contribute to making my school community one which values individuals equally and is a welcoming place for all. HWB 4-10a
Responsibility of All Physical Wellbeing
- I am developing my understanding of the human body and can use this knowledge to maintain and improve my wellbeing and health. HWB 4-15a
- I am learning to assess and manage risk, to protect myself and others, and to reduce the potential for harm when possible. HWB 4-16a
- I know and can demonstrate how to keep myself and others safe and how to respond in a range of emergency situations. HWB 4-17a
Responsibility of All Health & Wellbeing Relationships, Sexual Health and Parenthood
- I understand the importance of being cared for and caring for others in relationships, and can explain why. HWB 4-44a
- I understand and can demonstrate the qualities and skills required to sustain different types of relationships. HWB 4-44b
- I understand and can explain the importance of, and need for, commitment, trust and respect in loving and sexual relationships. I understand the different contexts of such relationships including marriage. HWB 4-44c
- I recognise that power can exist within relationships and can be used positively as well as negatively. HWB 4-45a
- I am aware of the need to respect personal space and boundaries and can recognise and respond appropriately to verbal and non-verbal communication. HWB 4-45b
- I reflect on how my attitudes, beliefs, values and morality can influence my decisions about friendships, relationships and sexual behaviour. HWB 4-46a
- I know that popular culture, the media and peer pressure can influence how I feel about myself and the impact this may have on my actions. HWB 4-46b
- I am developing skills for making decisions about my relationships and sexual behaviour. I am able to apply these to situations that may be challenging or difficult. HWB 4-46c
- I understand my own body’s uniqueness, my developing sexuality, and that of others. HWB 4-47a
- I know how to access services, information and support if my sexual health and wellbeing is at risk. I am aware of my rights in relation to sexual health including my right to confidentiality, and my responsibilities, including those under the law. HWB 4-48a
- I know how to manage situations concerning my sexual health and wellbeing and am learning to understand what is appropriate sexual behaviour. HWB 4-49a
- I know where to get support and help with situations involving abuse and I understand that there are laws which protect me from different kinds of abuse. HWB 4-49b
- I can explain the importance and the enduring and complex responsibility of being a parent/carer, and the impact on life choices and options. HWB 4-51a
Benchmarks: Justifies why commitment, trust and respect are central to being cared for and caring for others.
Explains the importance of shared values and goals in sustaining a loving and sexual relationships, for example, mutual respect, agreement on sex.
Distinguishes between a balance of power and abuse of power in relationships, for example, respect, trust, coercion, consent.
Explains how positive and negative body image can affect health, self-worth and behaviour, for example, self-reliance, beauty industry expectations, body building.
Evaluates how the media, including social media and pornography impact on physical and mental health.
Understands and respects diversity in sexuality, for example, sexual orientation and gender identity.
Understands the rights and responsibilities required for safe and enjoyable sex.
Explains how to access both local and national information, guidance and help
Demonstrates an understanding of support available and current legislation related to a range of types of abuse, for example, female genital mutilation, domestic abuse, grooming, child sexual exploitation.
Explains how to access support for parents and carers.
Suggested Learning Intentions
- To learn what aspects are part of healthy relationships.
- To develop understanding of factors that impact healthy relationships.
- To investigate what a healthy relationship means to me.
Suggested Success Criteria (I can...)
- I can explain what is meant by a healthy relationship.
- I can discuss how different factors can impact on the health of relationships.
- I can identify situations/factors that can affect the health of relationships.
Suggested Learning Experiences
These suggested activities/tasks are for group work within a classroom. Please select activities/tasks that are most relevant to the needs of your learners and school community. Please use your professional judgement as to how best to deliver these types of activities/tasks/content with your learners and which other staff may also be able to provide support/differentiation to meet their needs.
- What do we know?
Revise what pupils already know about relationships (relationships, respect, consent etc.) Discuss what makes a healthy relationship – how do you know? Where do views/attitudes/influences come from?
RSHP Resource Link – Romantic & Loving relationships Part 1 Love
- What do we need to know?
RSHP Resource Link – Romantic & Loving relationships Part 2 Living together
RSHP Resource Link – Romantic & Loving relationships Part 3 How do you make a relationship work
RSHP Resource Link – Romantic & Loving relationships Part 4 Qualities of a partner
RSHP Resource Link – Being a parent/carer Part 2 Would having a baby change my life
RSHP Resource Link – Being a parent/carer Part 2 Connecting and nurturing your child
RSHP Resource Link – Being a parent/carer Part 3 The importance of play
- What’s happening here / locally? / What could we do next?
Learners could discuss/explore/examine:
What local issues do we have relating to healthy relationships?
What may make a relationship unhealthy?
What can we do/what support agencies/networks are there?
Child sexual exploitation leaflet parents
Child sexual exploitation leaflet
Child sexual exploitation practitioners leaflet
Child sexual exploitation young people leaflet
Suggested SHANARRI Indicators
Suggested UNCRC Articles
Suggested NPF Outcome
- NPF 2.5
NHS Lanarkshire Library Resources
Here are some examples of resources that can be ordered via NHS Lanarkshire Library Resource to support your delivery of this topic:
- A resource bank on relationships: work it out (Book)
- Exploring healthy relationships (DVD)
- The new guide to: Relationships and sex (DVD)
- Boyfriend/girlfriend: the teen files flipped series (DVD)
- The relationships game (Game)
- NHS Lanarkshire BBV & Sexual Health Training & Education Manager – email: Jude.Irwin@lanarkshire.scot.nhs.uk
- Sexual health website www.lanarkshiresexualhealth.org
- C Card and apps https://www.lanarkshiresexualhealth.org/apps/
- Online ACEs course - https://www.acesonlinelearning.com/
- HSBC National Report
- RSHP Flash Report
- RSHP resource https://rshp.scot
- Breast Feeding NHS Highland link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TjOA-bYBF3k&list=PL1KAR34UG74Y0vUtmE9rKOKQlpNcz6n6f
- Scottish Government information on breast feeding https://www.gov.scot/publications/information-new-mothers-pregnant-women-families-information-feeding-child-public/
- TIE resources https://www.tiecampaign.co.uk/resources
- The Spark www.thespark.org.uk
- Children’s Rights www.unicef.org.uk/rrsa
- RRSA & ASN https://www.unicef.org.uk/rights-respecting-schools/resources/teaching-resources/special-schools-convention/
- Convention on Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD) https://www.un.org/development/desa/disabilities/convention-on-the-rights-of-persons-with-disabilities/the-convention-in-brief.html
- Children & Young People’s Commissioner Scotland www.cypcs.org.uk
- Children in Scotland https://childreninscotland.org.uk/
- ASDAN - https://www.asdan.org.uk/courses
- SQA - Wellbeing Award SCQF levels 3 to 5 https://www.sqa.org.uk/sqa/63094.html